When it comes to relationships, no one can be certain theirs will last forever. Unfortunatley most of us have experienced the pain of a break up. Usually a painful break up carries out 7 stupid things we do.
1. Stalking your Ex on the Internet
Why should you torture yourself, by looking at his/her photos, or controversial statuses? Do you really want to know he/she has already moved on. Just try to live your life and let him/her go, as you already know time heals.
2. Immediately Start a New Relationship
Although you may consider this the wisest decision ever, it is actually the dullest thing to do. You need some time to re-think the reasons led to the break up and find a way to avoid them in future.
3.Annoyingly Boasting With Your New Life
It is stupid, totally insane. Showing off the wonderful time you are spending without your ex-beloved one screams just the opposite – “I can`t live without you”.
4. Buying a pet
Having a pet is a wonderful thing, however it should not be used as a replacement of your partner. Taking care of a pet should be taken seriously and you need to realise all the responsibilities related to it.
5. Dramatic Changes – Not Recommended
In an attempt to run away from the past, you want to change your style, hair cut or even manners – a normal outcome of a difficult emotional state. Don`t go too drastic, though as you might regret it later. A good example of what you should not do is a tattoo with your ex`s name.
6. Memory Agonising
Every time you have heard “I love you”, your song, his/her smile or just the feel you used to feel when your ex was around – memories, which hurt you. Memories should stay in your head, but it is not necessary to evoke them every time you take a breath. Let them go, where they should be – into the past.
7. Having sex with another ex
it is a quite common situation, especially if you are still friends with some of your ex-boy/girlfriends. May be you think it is better to sleep with somebody you already know, right? However, let us just remind you that you have just screwed up a relationship, don`t screw one more.
